At some point, many of us ponder what it means to be nearing the end of life and how to identify those signs. This may seem daunting, but understanding the 11 indications that death may be near can help both the individual and their loved ones prepare for the transition. Experts, such as hospice specialist Julie McFadden, outline key symptoms often seen months, weeks, or even just hours before a natural passing.
Below, we delve into 11 common signs based on specialist advice.
Lack of Appetite
When the body starts to require less energy, a person may lose interest in meals and hydration. This is an early sign, often occurring one to two months before passing. Helping to keep their lips moist with a balm can enhance their comfort level.
Increased Sleep
Individuals may begin to sleep more frequently in the weeks leading up to death as their bodies conserve energy. It is important to note that hearing is one of the last senses to fade, so keep your voice gentle and respectful when communicating.
Changes in Toilet Habits
With a reduction in food and fluid consumption, bowel movements are less frequent. Sometimes, there is also a loss of control over bladder and bowel functions, necessitating medical assistance.
Muscle Weakness
As muscles weaken, it becomes more difficult for individuals to manage simple tasks such as walking or sitting up. Providing necessary support and adjustments to their environment can help ensure safety and comfort.
Fluctuating Vital Signs
Common symptoms in the final days include irregular breathing, a racing heart, or difficulty finding a pulse. Blood pressure might drop significantly, indicating the slowing down of bodily systems.
Lower Body Temperature
Reduced blood circulation can cause cold, pale, or patterned skin, especially noticeable on the hands, feet, and legs. This is a physical sign often recognized by loved ones.
Breathing Changes
Changes in breathing such as grunting, rattling, or patterns like Cheyne-Stokes breathing may appear. Altering their position can bring relief, and seeking medical advice if necessary is prudent.
Experiencing Pain
Pain may increase and conventional treatments might not always work. Monitoring and managing their discomfort can ensure a more peaceful state.
Reduced Social Interaction
Nearing the end, many individuals start withdrawing from social engagement. Preference for solitude is normal and visits should align with their comfort and readiness.
Confusion and Disorientation
Confusion and memory lapses might arise in their final days. Gently reminding them of who is present and clarifying what is happening can offer reassurance.
Hallucinations
Individuals might experience altered visions or speak to unseen figures. Although this can be unsettling, staying calm and gently orienting them to their surroundings can ease apprehension.
Preparing for the End
Being aware of these signs can allow loved ones to provide better care and support during these emotional times. Though it may be tough, providing comfort and empathy can transform final moments into meaningful and peaceful ones.
If you’re dealing with bereavement, Cruse Bereavement Care offers support through their national helpline at 0808 808 1677.
