Sharing aspects of our personal lives online can sometimes open the door to unwelcome criticism. A young couple, simply celebrating their love by sharing photos together, faced backlash from others for their relationship.
However, their reaction to this criticism is both clever and a poignant reminder of the power of staying true to your beliefs.
The story of Matt and Brittany Montgomery is one many of us have heard before, yet it remains wonderfully unique. They met, fell head over heels in love, and decided to build a life together.
But what sets their story apart is the significant difference in their sizes. Throughout her life, Brittany struggled with being accepted. Her relationship with her parents, who often exerted control over her life, left her feeling drained and lacking confidence.
As a plus-sized woman, she encountered two types of men in her life: those who urged her to lose weight or those who saw her curves as an object of fetish. Such negative experiences pushed her to almost give up on dating entirely and close the door on love.
But fate had a different plan for Brittany! In August 2020, she met Matt Montgomery on Facebook. Despite their physical differences, their souls connected in an extraordinary way.
“I was a bit hesitant at first. I’ve been in relationships where guys have threatened to leave if I didn’t diet or try to lose weight,” Brittany recounted. “It affected my self-confidence, and I even attempted to change my size at one point.”
Nonetheless, they were certain of their feelings for each other and deeply in love. Matt proposed on January 30, 2022, and they began planning their future together.
While they’ve embraced each other wholeheartedly, the world views their relationship through a lens of judgment. Matt said, “People comment on Instagram, suggesting I’m not big enough or man enough for her. I notice people staring as we walk down the street.”
Despite the barrage of criticism from those who can’t grasp their profound connection, the couple remains steadfast in their love for one another.
In Matt’s past, he faced challenges with women of conventional size. But Brittany’s ability to make him feel special confirmed to Matt that she truly is his soulmate.
Perfect Response
Matt wholeheartedly accepts Brittany for who she is and prioritizes her happiness. Openly, he shares his love and appreciation for her. In a heartfelt post, he wrote, “You are worthy, you deserve infinite love each day, and more. The way I look at you and feel for you, and the way you look and feel for me, reassures me that we are meant to be.”
His words serve as a powerful answer to those leaving snide remarks on their photos, affirming his love for Brittany transcends physical appearances. This response is nothing short of perfect!
They aim to dismantle the stigma surrounding ‘mixed-weight’ relationships. Brittany expressed, “I wish mixed-weight relationships were more commonplace and normalized.”
In March 2022, the couple joyously welcomed their daughter, Lakelyn, and excitedly announced they’re expecting another child in September 2023. Our best wishes are with them!
Indeed, when it comes to discovering true love, there are no fixed rules about what brings joy to someone’s life. Let us embrace and love each other unconditionally!
