My boss had a strange habit of dumping urgent tasks on me after hours. Tasks no one else seemed to get. Whenever I objected, he hinted my job was at risk. When I talked to HR about it, they were incredibly concerned.
A week later, HR revealed that I was the only employee in the department who wasn’t part of a private WhatsApp group my boss had created. It was mostly jokes and weekend plans, but it was also where he warned the others about “late-night dumps” and told them how to avoid them. I was never invited. They all knew how to dodge the late-night tasks—because he told them in advance. I was the only one left in the dark.
I felt sick. I’d been working 10–11 hour days for months while everyone else slipped out by six. No wonder they all seemed so chill during the day. The workload wasn’t actually impossible—it was just being dumped entirely on me. And the worst part? A few coworkers I considered friendly must’ve known.
I didn’t tell anyone I knew. Not yet. HR said they’d “investigate further,” but they couldn’t promise much. My contract was up for renewal in three months, and I needed the job. So, I stayed quiet. But I started paying attention.
I noticed small things first. My boss, Rajit, always started his urgent requests with, “Sorry to do this to you again, but I know I can count on you.” I used to take that as a compliment. Now it sounded like a trap. Then there was Niko, who always left his Slack active after hours—but never replied to anything past 6:05 p.m. Not once. When I casually asked how he managed to set boundaries so well, he just said, “You gotta train them.”
Train them.
Apparently, I’d been trained to do the opposite.
Over the next few weeks, I started clocking everything. Literally and figuratively. I logged every after-hours task in a spreadsheet. I took screenshots of Slack messages, email timestamps, even the little passive-aggressive thumbs-up Rajit sent when I turned something in at midnight. HR said to “document patterns,” so I did. I became my own damn private investigator.
But I also started testing limits.
One Friday at 6:15, Rajit pinged me: “Can you put together the slide deck for Monday’s meeting? Just a few tweaks to the client deck. Shouldn’t take long.”
I waited a full five minutes, then replied, “I’m not at my desk anymore, but I’ll take a look Monday morning.”
No answer.
Monday came. I opened the deck at 8:50 a.m. and found it completely done—by someone else. Niko, judging by the filename. Guess Rajit didn’t want to risk his golden boy fumbling in front of the client.
It was working.
That tiny act of defiance opened a crack. I started saying no more often. Not rudely, just with firm boundaries. And sure enough, the urgent tasks started going elsewhere. Once, Rajit even gave a last-minute spreadsheet cleanup to Lara, who complained once in the group chat that “Excel makes my head hurt.” She didn’t even hide it.
But here’s where it gets weird.
About two months after I first went to HR, I saw Rajit talking to a woman in the break room I’d never seen before. Late 40s maybe, sharp suit, had that no-nonsense vibe. I figured she was a visiting exec. She looked straight at me as I walked in, then leaned in and whispered something to Rajit. He looked… rattled.
That afternoon, HR called me in.
The woman was Anahita Mallick, VP of Internal Ethics. Apparently, someone else had filed a complaint about Rajit recently—and mine had helped confirm a larger pattern. She couldn’t share all the details, but she said they were doing a “personnel audit” and thanked me for my honesty. She also casually mentioned that my contract was “under review for early conversion.”
I left that meeting stunned.
Back at my desk, I noticed something else. The energy around Rajit was shifting. He smiled less. He started holding awkward one-on-ones. And one day, when I walked by the conference room, I heard him say to someone, “I don’t know who’s gunning for me, but they’re twisting things.”
I wasn’t gunning for anyone. I just wanted to be treated like a human.
Then, two weeks before my contract was up, everything exploded.
HR announced a department “restructure.” Two roles would be eliminated, and one new leadership role would open up—an internal promotion. Rajit’s title wasn’t on the new org chart. His face was still around, but he suddenly had no reports. He stopped giving tasks. Meetings he used to lead got reassigned to someone named Micah.
That same week, HR officially offered me a full-time role.
No probation, no contract extension. Just a clean offer—with a raise and better hours. I accepted on the spot.
A few coworkers—especially Lara—started acting different. Niko sent me a Slack I didn’t expect: “Hey, I didn’t realize how much he was putting on you. That sucked. Glad you’re sticking around.” I left him on read. What was I supposed to say? Thanks for not standing up for me?
But the biggest shock came in my third month as a full-time employee.
I got invited to join a working group on “ethical leadership practices.” It was part of a new initiative after the department “shakeup.” One of the meetings was run by—get this—Anahita Mallick. She called me by name in front of everyone and said, “We need more people like you speaking up. Quiet professionalism is not the same as compliance.”
I felt myself flush. In a good way.
Later, I found out something wild.
The WhatsApp group? Someone had leaked it to HR. An anonymous email with screenshots. They couldn’t prove who sent it, but rumor was, it came from one of Rajit’s inner circle—someone who got spooked when they realized the investigation was real. It wasn’t me. I never had access.
But it meant the truth didn’t just come from me. Other people saw it, too.
Now, a year later, I lead a small team of my own. I still work late sometimes, but only by choice, and I make damn sure no one under me feels punished for having a life. One of my reports once apologized for signing off at 5:55 before a long weekend. I told her, “Please don’t ever apologize for boundaries. I want you to have weekends.”
She got teary-eyed. Said no one had ever said that to her before.
It stuck with me.
What happened with Rajit? Last I heard, he took “some time off.” His LinkedIn now says “Consultant – Leadership Coaching.” Which is honestly the most ironic thing I’ve ever read.
But I don’t wish him ill. I really don’t.
People who build little empires on fear and favoritism? Eventually, they collapse under their own weight. Karma’s not always dramatic—but it is consistent.
So if you’re reading this and stuck in a situation where you feel used or invisible, I just want you to know: you’re not crazy. You’re not weak for needing rest. And you don’t have to accept “that’s just how it is.”
Speak up. Keep receipts. Trust your gut.
You might be the first domino—but you won’t fall alone.
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