We were walking out of the grocery store.
Just the two of us. Warm day. Frozen stuff melting in the bags. She was ranting about how they didn’t carry her favorite yogurt anymore, nothing serious.
Until she stopped.
Mid-sentence.
Right there in the middle of the parking lot, she locked eyes with a man walking toward his car. Bald. Sunglasses. Carrying nothing. I thought maybe she knew him from church or something.
But then she pointed—hard—and screamed:
“YOU DON’T GET TO RUN AWAY FOREVER!”
The man froze. He looked around like maybe she was yelling at someone else, but her finger stayed steady, shaking with the kind of rage you only see in courtroom dramas. People turned their heads. Some slowed down their carts. I nearly dropped the bag with frozen peas.
I whispered, “Auntie, do you know him?”
She didn’t answer. The man muttered something under his breath, got in his car, and drove off. Tires squealed a little as he pulled out too fast.
I stood there stunned, my ears ringing from her voice, the heat of the blacktop making the whole moment feel like a fever dream.
“What was that?” I finally asked, trying to sound casual, like maybe she just had a weird outburst.
She shook her head. “That wasn’t for him. That was for you.”
For me.
I laughed nervously. “For me? What are you talking about?”
She adjusted the grocery bag in her hand, face flushed but calmer now. “You’ve been running away. Pretending everything is fine. You think I don’t see it?”
I wanted to argue, but her words landed with a weight I didn’t want to acknowledge. She wasn’t wrong. I had been avoiding something. Avoiding a lot, actually.
We walked to the car in silence. She didn’t explain further, and I didn’t push. But my chest felt tight the whole ride home.
That night, I replayed the scene a hundred times. Her scream. The way the man’s jaw tightened before he drove off. And her words. For me.
The truth was, I had been avoiding a conversation with my boss. He’d been asking me for weeks about whether I wanted to apply for the new manager position. And instead of giving him an answer, I kept dodging it, saying I was busy, saying I’d think about it. Deep down, I was terrified. Terrified of failing, of being seen as not enough. So I avoided it.
And my aunt—who didn’t even know the details—had called me out in the middle of a grocery store parking lot.
I decided to ignore it, at least for a few days. But you know how sometimes the universe doesn’t let you? Like when a thought follows you into the shower, into your commute, into your dreams. That was me.
The following week, I went back to her house to help her carry in some things. She poured me lemonade and asked, out of nowhere, “Did you ever talk to him?”
“To who?” I asked.
“Your boss.” She said it flat, like she knew.
I frowned. “How do you always know these things?”
She shrugged. “I don’t. But I know you. And I know when someone’s running away.”
I stared at the condensation sliding down my glass, then admitted, “I haven’t talked to him yet.”
“Why?”
“Because… what if I’m not good enough? What if I fail?”
She leaned back in her chair, eyes narrowing the way they do when she’s about to say something she knows I won’t like. “You think that man in the parking lot was running away from someone else? No. He was running away from himself. Same as you.”
I wanted to argue again, but I couldn’t.
The next morning, I decided I’d finally talk to my boss. I even rehearsed what I’d say in the mirror. But when I got to the office, he was out sick. And then the day after, a new email went out: the manager position had been filled. Someone else had taken it.
I felt like the air had been knocked out of me.
That night, I told my aunt. She didn’t say “I told you so.” She just looked at me with this strange mix of sadness and patience.
But then she surprised me.
She said, “Good. You weren’t supposed to get that job.”
“What do you mean?” I asked, annoyed. “I missed my chance.”
“No,” she said. “That was never your chance. That was just a distraction. Your real chance is coming.”
I laughed bitterly. “You sound like a fortune cookie.”
“Maybe,” she said, sipping her tea. “But I’ve lived long enough to know when something isn’t meant for you. That job wasn’t it.”
I wanted to believe her. But mostly, I felt like a failure.
Two weeks later, something unexpected happened.
I got a call from a company I’d applied to months ago and forgotten about. They wanted me to come in for an interview. A bigger role. Better pay. A whole new environment.
And for some reason, I felt ready.
The day of the interview, I sat in the waiting area, palms sweating. Then I remembered her scream. Her finger pointed like a sword. “YOU DON’T GET TO RUN AWAY FOREVER!”
It echoed in my head.
I walked into that interview like I belonged there. And for once, I didn’t pretend. I didn’t downplay myself. I told them what I was good at. What I’d learned. Where I wanted to grow.
Two days later, they offered me the job.
When I told my aunt, she just smiled. “See? I told you. That one was meant for you.”
But here’s where it gets stranger.
A month after starting my new job, I saw the man from the parking lot again. Same bald head. Same sunglasses. He was sitting alone on a bench outside a coffee shop, staring at the ground.
I almost kept walking. But something pulled me toward him.
“Hey,” I said softly. He looked up, surprised.
“You probably don’t remember me,” I continued. “But a few weeks ago, my aunt yelled at you in a parking lot.”
His lips twitched, like he wanted to laugh but couldn’t. “Yeah,” he said. “I remember.”
“I’m sorry about that,” I added quickly.
He shook his head. “Don’t be. She was right.”
That caught me off guard.
He sighed. “I’ve been running away from my family. Haven’t spoken to my brother in years. Haven’t seen my kids in months. When she said that… it hit me. I just didn’t want anyone to see it.”
I stood there stunned. The whole thing had felt like it was about me. But maybe it had been about him too.
“Have you talked to them yet?” I asked.
“Not yet,” he said, voice cracking. “But I’m going to.”
And in that moment, I realized something. Maybe her scream wasn’t just for me. Maybe it was for anyone who needed to hear it.
Because sometimes the truth hits hardest when it’s shouted by a stranger in a parking lot.
Weeks later, my aunt and I were sitting on her porch again. I told her about seeing the man, about what he said.
She smiled knowingly. “Funny how life works, isn’t it?”
I nodded. “You didn’t just change my life that day. You changed his too.”
She patted my hand. “That’s the thing about truth. It doesn’t care who hears it. If it’s meant for you, it sticks.”
That night, lying in bed, I thought about all the ways I’d been running. From jobs. From conversations. From myself. And I promised I’d stop.
The lesson wasn’t about seizing every opportunity or never being afraid. It was about not letting fear keep me from even trying.
My aunt’s scream became a turning point. Not just for me, not just for the stranger, but as a reminder that sometimes, the harshest words are the ones we secretly need most.
So here’s what I took away: You can run for a while. You can distract yourself, make excuses, hide behind what-ifs. But eventually, life—or maybe someone in a grocery store parking lot—will call you out. And when it does, you’ll have a choice: keep running or finally turn around and face it.
I faced it. And it led me somewhere better than I ever expected.
If you’ve been running from something, maybe this is your sign to stop. Because you don’t get to run away forever.
And honestly, you don’t need to.
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