I was on a flight, sitting by the window, when the plane hit turbulence. Suddenly I felt the man next to me grab my hand and say, “Honey, don’t worry, everything’s fine!” I was stunned, since I was traveling alone.

Then I saw that he wasn’t looking at me—he was staring straight ahead, eyes wide, like he wasn’t even really there. His grip loosened after a second, and he blinked like he’d just woken up.

“I—I’m sorry,” he muttered, letting go. “I thought… I thought you were someone else.”

I gave a small laugh, more out of nerves than amusement. “It’s okay. That turbulence was pretty rough.”

He nodded but didn’t say anything else. Just shifted uncomfortably in his seat and pulled the airline blanket higher over his lap.

I would’ve left it at that. Just chalked it up to a weird moment and focused back on the clouds. But something about the look on his face—the way he’d said “honey” like it was muscle memory—stuck with me. Like I’d watched a crack open in someone and then slam shut.

An hour passed. The seatbelt light was off. I was reading, half-asleep, when I noticed his hands trembling as he tried to sip his drink. Not violently, but just enough to see the ripple in his ginger ale.

“You okay?” I asked gently.

He looked over at me, surprised. “Huh? Oh, yeah. Yeah, just… nerves. I hate flying.”

“You and me both,” I said, though I’d flown dozens of times for work.

He smiled politely, but there was a sadness to it. Then he asked, “You ever lose someone up here?”

The question hit like cold water. I shook my head. “No, thank God. You?”

His eyes darted to the window, then back to the tray table.

“My wife,” he said. “Three years ago. Heart attack. We were landing in Phoenix. She was asleep next to me, or I thought she was. I didn’t know until we were already on the ground.”

I didn’t know what to say. My throat caught.

“I’m so sorry,” I said quietly.

“Yeah,” he replied. “Me too.”

He didn’t offer a name, and I didn’t press. But from that point on, something shifted. We weren’t just two strangers on a plane anymore. There was a shared quiet between us.

I asked if he was traveling for work. He laughed.

“Nope. Retired. I live outside Tulsa. Just visiting my daughter in San Diego. She had a baby. My first grandkid.”

“That’s amazing,” I said. “Congrats.”

He smiled, but it didn’t quite reach his eyes. “Thanks. Haven’t met the baby yet. She… she and I haven’t talked in over a year.”

That surprised me. “Wait, what? And now you’re flying out there?”

He shrugged. “She reached out. Said she wanted me to meet the baby. I figured… life’s too short to hold onto grudges. Especially when you’re old and lonely.”

I didn’t know why, but his words hit me hard. Maybe because I’d just fought with my own dad last week and hadn’t called him since.

“What’s your daughter’s name?” I asked.

“Samira. But she goes by Sami.”

“Pretty.”

He nodded. “She’s a good kid. Too good for the dad she got.”

I frowned. “I doubt that.”

He shook his head. “I deserve her silence. I chose work over family for years. Always thought I was doing it for them, but the truth is, I was running. I didn’t know how to be in a family. Not really.”

There was silence between us for a minute.

“My name’s Naveen,” he said finally, holding out a weathered hand.

I took it. “I’m Lourdes.”

He gave a nod like he was sealing something.

“You live in LA?” he asked.

“Sort of. Studio City. I do PR.”

He made a face. “I don’t know what that is.”

I laughed. “You’re better off.”

We spent the next half hour talking about our favorite places to eat, books we never finished, movies we both hated. It was easy. Natural. Like we’d known each other in some other life.

Then, as the flight attendant came by offering snacks, he asked, “So what’s your story?”

“What do you mean?”

“You look like you’re running from something.”

I blinked. “Wow. Okay. Psychoanalyze me on a plane, why don’t you?”

He chuckled. “I’m sorry. You don’t have to answer. I just… I can see it. I used to see it in the mirror.”

That shut me up.

After a pause, I said, “I broke off an engagement three weeks ago.”

His brows rose. “Ah. That’ll do it.”

“Yeah. I found out he was texting someone else. Said it wasn’t physical, but… who cares at that point?”

He nodded slowly. “Emotional betrayal cuts deeper, sometimes.”

“Exactly.”

“Do you miss him?”

I thought about that for a second.

“I miss the version of him I thought I had,” I said.

“Fair,” he said, sipping his drink.

There was a long silence, not uncomfortable. Just full.

Then he asked, “Can I tell you something weird?”

“Sure.”

“I think I was meant to sit next to you.”

I looked over. He was serious.

“I don’t mean fate or whatever,” he added. “I just mean… this feels important. I haven’t talked to anyone this real in a long time.”

I smiled. “Me neither.”

We landed soon after. As we waited for the doors to open, I watched him open his phone and pull up a photo. A little baby, wrapped in a sunflower-patterned swaddle. Big brown eyes.

“My grandson,” he said proudly. “Kareem.”

“He’s beautiful.”

He looked like he wanted to say more, but then the line started moving.

We shuffled out together, side by side. Then near baggage claim, he turned to me.

“You ever need someone to talk to, you call me, okay?”

He handed me a small, worn business card. Just a name—Naveen Abbas—and a number. No email, no title.

I smiled. “Thank you. Same goes for you.”

We hugged. A real one.

Then he was gone.

A week passed. Then two. I thought about him now and then, but life got loud again. I was back to work, dodging awkward questions about the wedding, trying to stay afloat.

Then one night, I got a text.

Unknown number:
Hi Lourdes. This is Sami. I think you met my dad on a flight?

I blinked.

Yeah! We sat next to each other. Is everything okay?

There was a pause.

He passed away two days after that flight. Heart failure. Peaceful. In his sleep.

I stared at my phone for a long time.

I’m so sorry, I typed. He talked about you. He was so excited to meet Kareem.

She replied:
He told me about you, too. Said he finally talked to someone who saw him. Thank you for that.

My eyes blurred. I didn’t know what to say.

Then she sent another message.

He left something for you. In his coat pocket, there was a note. It had your name on it.

My chest tightened.

Can I send you a picture of it?

Please.

A few minutes later, a photo came through. A small piece of notebook paper, torn on the edge.

Lourdes—
You reminded me who I used to be. Keep going. Love is still out there.
—Naveen

I sat in my living room, holding the phone like it was something sacred.

That night, I called my dad. Apologized for being distant. He cried. I cried.

We made plans to visit my aunt in New Mexico next month—something we’d talked about for years but never followed through on.

Six months later, I got a call from a number I didn’t recognize. I let it go to voicemail.

It was Sami.

She said she was starting a foundation in her dad’s name—a mentorship program for kids who lost parents. She remembered me. Wanted to know if I’d help with the messaging, since I worked in PR.

I said yes before the message even finished playing.

That program is now in three states. We call it The Window Seat Project.

Every year, on the anniversary of that flight, we pick one kid in the program to fly somewhere new. We sit with them, talk to them, ask them who they miss.

And we listen.

Here’s what I know now: not all angels have wings. Some wear tired sweaters and drink ginger ale and tell you the truth without flinching.

Sometimes, the universe puts a person in your path not to change them, but to help change you.

If I’d never taken that flight, I might still be angry. Still guarding my heart. Still pretending I was fine.

But Naveen cracked something open in me. Not just about forgiveness, but about presence. About showing up for people, even if it’s messy. Especially when it’s messy.

We don’t always get a second chance with the people we love. But if we do—we better take it.

Don’t wait.

Call your dad. Text your sister. Tell the friend you ghosted that you miss them.

Life’s too short to stay buckled in silence.

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