My boyfriend cheated on me with his coworker. So I decided to get revenge; I found this girl on social media and messaged her, “Hi, I’m your boyfriend’s ex…” But she didn’t ignore me. She made a bold move: she replied, “I didn’t know. Can we talk?”

Her name was Sierra. Blonde, polished, the kind of girl you’d see modeling skincare products. I thought she’d block me, maybe defend him, or toss back some smug message. Instead, she said, “Want to meet for coffee?”

I was skeptical. I mean, who does that? But something in her tone seemed real. Not defensive, not fake. Just… honest. So the next Saturday, I met her at a quiet café downtown.

I wore my usual hoodie and jeans. She showed up in a trench coat and ankle boots, makeup minimal, hair up like she didn’t care to impress. We sat awkwardly at first, both unsure if this was about to become a screaming match or a therapy session.

She broke the silence first. “He told me you were ‘crazy’ and ‘still hung up on him.’ Said you’d message me just to mess things up.”

I let out a bitter laugh. “Wow. That’s the oldest line in the book.”

We both kind of smirked. There was something oddly comforting in realizing we were both lied to. She reached into her bag, pulled out her phone, and showed me some texts. Same nicknames he used with me. Same recycled promises. Even the same “goodnight, baby 💤” messages—sent to both of us, sometimes minutes apart.

It was nauseating.

She stared at her latte, voice quieter now. “I found out he was seeing someone else before you too. A girl named Tasha. I called her last week. Same story.”

I blinked. “So I was… what? The Wednesday girl?”

She shrugged. “Honestly, probably. He travels for work. Has those late-night ‘meetings.’ It fits.”

We ended up sitting there for two hours, swapping stories like old war buddies. There was no tension, no cattiness. Just two women piecing together a puzzle built on lies.

After that day, we started texting. At first, it was just little updates—“Guess who texted me again at 2am 🙄”—but over time, we grew closer. It was bizarre. I never imagined becoming friends with the girl my ex cheated with. But there we were.

Three weeks later, Sierra invited me to a gallery opening. Her friend was showing some photography, and she didn’t want to go alone. I said sure. Needed something to distract me from my very bruised ego.

I showed up in a dress I hadn’t worn since college. Sierra beamed when she saw me. “You clean up good,” she teased.

The gallery was packed with people who looked like they all majored in something like “Existential Visual Narrative.” I felt out of place until Sierra grabbed my hand and pulled me toward the wine table.

That’s where I met Alec.

He was leaning casually against the wall, sipping red wine, reading the back of a pamphlet like it was a novel. Tall, a little scruffy, with that offbeat charm like he genuinely didn’t care what anyone thought.

Sierra introduced us. “Alec, this is Hazel. The one I told you about.”

He smiled. “The one with the psycho ex?”

I raised an eyebrow. “Wow. So I’ve got a reputation.”

He chuckled. “Only the good kind.”

We ended up chatting most of the night. About books, food, terrible first dates. He was easy to talk to. Refreshingly normal. No performative flirting, no weird flexes. Just… chill.

When the night ended, he asked if I wanted to go for burgers. I hesitated—was I ready for this? But then I thought about my ex, who still hadn’t returned the books he borrowed, and I said yes.

The burger place was a hole-in-the-wall diner, the kind with vinyl booths and thick milkshakes. We stayed until they closed. He walked me to my car and said, “I’d like to see you again. No pressure.”

I nodded. “Same.”

The next few weeks were calm in a way that made me nervous. Alec texted when he said he would. Showed up when he promised. Didn’t play games. Honestly, it almost made me suspicious.

I told Sierra about it one night over wine at her place. “He’s too… emotionally available.”

She laughed. “Maybe that’s what healthy looks like, Hazel.”

But just when I thought life was settling, the universe threw another curveball.

I got a call from my landlord. He was selling the building. Everyone had 60 days to move out. I’d lived in that apartment for five years. It was small, yes, but it was mine. And now I had to find a new place in a ridiculously overpriced city.

Sierra offered her guest room. “It’s nothing fancy, but you’ll have space.”

I hesitated. “Are you sure? What if we end up hating each other?”

She grinned. “Then I’ll put laxatives in your coffee.”

So, I moved in.

Living with her was… surprisingly easy. We split groceries, took turns cooking, and binged terrible reality shows. There were occasional hiccups—like when she left her curling iron on and nearly melted my hairbrush—but overall, it worked.

One Friday night, as we were half-asleep watching reruns of The Office, my ex, Nathan, called.

I stared at the screen. That stupid contact photo. I hadn’t changed it. Still him in those ridiculous aviators, grinning like a fool.

Sierra looked over. “Answer it.”

“Why?”

“Closure.”

I picked up.

“Hazel,” he said, like he hadn’t destroyed months of my life.

“What do you want?”

“I just… I’ve been thinking. I messed up. I miss you.”

I nearly laughed. “Are you drunk?”

“A little. But I mean it.”

I put him on speaker. Sierra crossed her arms and raised an eyebrow.

He kept rambling. Apologizing. Saying all the things he should’ve said when it mattered. Finally, he ended with, “Can we try again?”

Sierra leaned in and said, “Hey Nathan, this is Sierra. You sent me that same line last night. Try harder.”

Dead silence.

Then the line went dead.

We burst out laughing. I laughed so hard I nearly spilled my wine.

That was the real closure. Not some heart-to-heart. Just two women calling out a fraud together.

A month later, Alec invited me to a cabin trip with his friends. I was nervous—I barely knew them. But he insisted. “They’ll love you. And if they don’t, we’ll fake an emergency and drive back.”

The cabin was beautiful. Tucked in the woods, with a fire pit and string lights. His friends were a little loud, very outdoorsy, and completely hilarious. By the second day, I felt like I’d known them for years.

One evening, Alec and I sat outside while everyone else played board games inside. The stars were out, clear and bright. He turned to me and said, “You know, I was worried about asking you out.”

“Why?”

“You looked like someone who’d been hurt.”

I shrugged. “I was. Still am, sometimes.”

“But you’re also someone who showed up anyway. Who gave me a chance. That matters.”

He kissed me then. Not the dramatic kind. Just warm, steady, real.

That night, I realized something. Healing doesn’t always look like locking yourself in a room with ice cream and crying to sad playlists. Sometimes, it looks like opening yourself up to weird, wonderful new people. Even the ones you thought you’d hate.

Two months later, Sierra started dating someone too. A nurse named Becca. Sweet, funny, patient in ways I could never be. I liked her immediately.

We had this little joke: our ex might’ve been a compulsive liar, but he unknowingly introduced us to some of the best people we’d ever meet.

And in a strange way, he brought Sierra and me together. That mess of a breakup gave me a best friend, a boyfriend who actually listens, and a sense of peace I didn’t know I needed.

Here’s the twist, though.

One day, I ran into Nathan. Grocery store. He looked… tired. Hollow. We made eye contact and he nodded, like he expected me to flip him off or cause a scene.

Instead, I walked past him. Not out of anger. But because I’d truly moved on.

He followed me to the parking lot.

“Hazel,” he said, panting a little, “Can I just say something?”

I stopped. “Make it quick.”

“I don’t expect you to forgive me. But… I’m in therapy now. Realized a lot of stuff. I just wanted to say thank you—for waking me up.”

I stared at him. Part of me wanted to laugh. But another part—an older, less bitter one—felt something else.

“I hope you’re serious about getting help,” I said. “But that has nothing to do with me anymore.”

He nodded. “I know. Just… thank you.”

And then I drove away.

People think revenge is dramatic, fire-and-brimstone stuff. But sometimes, it’s simpler. It’s growing so far beyond someone that they don’t even recognize the person you’ve become.

I didn’t burn his stuff. I didn’t egg his car.

Instead, I found a real friend, a better love, and peace.

And that’s the best revenge of all.

If you’ve ever been lied to, betrayed, or left feeling small—just know: you won’t feel like that forever. One day, you’ll laugh again. You’ll trust again. And you’ll find yourself standing next to people who actually deserve you.

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