A couple of weeks ago, our kitchen sink started leaking. I asked my husband, Mark, to fix it—he barely looked up from his phone.
“Call a plumber. I’m busy, Claire. Do I look like I have time to play handyman? Just stop nagging.”
Fine. I called a plumber and paid $180 for something Mark could’ve fixed in 15 minutes.
That same afternoon, I ran into our new neighbor, Lily—a bubbly blonde in her late twenties with legs for days. She beamed at me.
“Claire, you are so lucky! Mark is such a handyman!”
I blinked. “Excuse me?”
She giggled. “He’s fixing my sink right now! I knocked on your door, and he was home, so he came right over. So sweet of him!”
My stomach dropped.
I silently stepped into her apartment and there he was. On his knees. Fixing her damn sink.
The same man who was “too busy” for mine.
I watched in silence as he worked like some home improvement hero. Then, without a word, I walked out.
Oh, Mark. You just made a huge mistake.
I didn’t confront him that night. Didn’t even hint that I knew.
Instead, I planned my revenge.
That weekend, I threw a neighborhood barbecue. Mark had no idea what was coming.
I invited everyone on the block, including Lily. Mark, oblivious as ever, was in a great mood, flipping burgers like a model husband.
Halfway through, when everyone was gathered around the patio, I tapped my glass.
“I just want to take a moment to appreciate my husband, Mark.” I smiled sweetly. “You know, I had to pay $180 to fix our sink because he was too busy. But it turns out he’s actually quite the handyman! Lily, you’d agree, right?” I turned to her.
Lily’s face turned red. Mark froze, spatula mid-air.
“Oh, um…” Lily stammered. “I—”
I didn’t let her finish. “Mark was kind enough to fix her sink. Dropped everything to help her out. Isn’t that just the sweetest?”
The silence was deafening. Our friends shifted uncomfortably. The guy who lived across the street let out a low whistle.
Mark’s face paled. “Claire, I—”
“No, really. It’s touching,” I cut him off, sipping my drink. “I mean, you couldn’t spare a minute for our sink, but Lily’s? You were right there on your knees.”
Someone coughed. My best friend Sophie bit her lip to keep from laughing.
Mark had no words.
Lily mumbled some excuse and all but ran out of the backyard.
Mark pulled me aside, his face flushed. “Claire, you’re blowing this out of proportion.”
“Am I?” I crossed my arms. “Because it seems to me that fixing sinks isn’t the problem. Who you fix them for is.”
He rubbed his forehead. “I just… I just wanted to help her.”
“And yet, you didn’t want to help me. Explain that.”
He stammered. He knew he had no defense. And for the first time in our marriage, I saw it—the realization sinking in that he’d messed up. Big time.
That night, I didn’t talk to him much. Just let him stew in his own guilt. He tried to bring it up before bed, but I turned my back to him.
Over the next week, Mark went out of his way to make it up to me. Fixed the loose cabinet door I’d mentioned months ago. Cleaned the garage without me asking. Even cooked dinner twice.
But I wasn’t ready to let him off the hook just yet.
Then one evening, he sat me down.
“Claire, I was an idiot,” he admitted. “I don’t know why I did that. Maybe I liked feeling needed. Maybe I was just being selfish. But it wasn’t fair to you, and I see that now.”
Finally, the words I’d been waiting for.
I sighed. “It wasn’t about the sink, Mark. It was about priorities. And respect.”
“I know.” He took my hands. “I need to do better. And I will.”
And to his credit—he did. It wasn’t instant, but over the next few months, he made real changes. Paid attention. Put our marriage first. No more selective “busy” excuses.
As for Lily? She moved out a couple of months later. Never even said goodbye. Not that I cared.
The lesson here? If someone isn’t making time for you, it’s not because they don’t have time—it’s because they’re choosing not to. And sometimes, they need a wake-up call to realize what they’re about to lose.
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