My parents have always been kinda unfair to me. I’m the older daughter, and for some reason, that meant getting the basement as my room while my younger brother got this huge, bright room upstairs. He got everything brand new — furniture, decorations, all of it. I got whatever leftover junk they could find in the garage. It hurt, you know?

But I wasn’t just gonna sit in a cave. I started saving up from my after-school job and got into DIY. My aunt was a huge help — she gave me tips and even chipped in here and there. I painted the walls, hung up LED lights, and transformed the basement into a place I actually loved. It felt like a small victory, finally having something of my own.

Then my parents came down and saw it. They took one look and decided that since I had “extra money” for decorations, I should be paying rent. Seriously? I’m still in high school! Meanwhile, my brother had his fully furnished room, which they had paid for, and no one said a thing. Oh, and when he came downstairs and ripped my LED lights off the wall just to see how strong they were? Nothing. They didn’t even tell him to apologize.

But here’s where karma stepped in. A few weeks later, a woman I’d never seen before entered our house.

She was tall, dressed professionally, and had this intense energy, like someone who’d seen a lot and didn’t have time for games. My mom tried to act casual, like she was an old friend, but the woman didn’t even crack a smile. She introduced herself as Maritza Delgado, from Child Welfare Services.

That’s when my stomach dropped.

I thought maybe a teacher had called because of how tired I looked lately — I’d been working late and doing homework in the early hours. Or maybe my aunt had said something. But it turned out… it wasn’t about me at all.

Apparently, someone had made an anonymous report. Not about abuse — but about neglect. And not general neglect, either. Neglect of me. Specifically.

Maritza sat me down in the kitchen while my parents hovered, clearly freaking out. She asked me questions — if I had a quiet place to sleep, if I had privacy, if I had the same access to resources and space as my sibling. I answered honestly. She raised an eyebrow when I mentioned I paid rent from my part-time job. She didn’t say much else, just wrote a lot down.

My mom tried to explain that the rent was to teach me “responsibility.” I just looked at Maritza. “Then how come my brother doesn’t pay any?” I asked. Dead silence.

After that visit, everything changed.

My parents got scared. Suddenly, I didn’t have to pay rent anymore. My dad mumbled something about “just wanting to teach me about real life,” but he couldn’t even look me in the eye. My mom tried to pretend nothing happened — offered to help me put my lights back up, asked if I wanted to go shopping for some new blankets.

But the truth? It wasn’t about the money or the lights.

It was the way they saw me — as less than. Like I didn’t deserve comfort unless I earned it. But my brother just got it handed to him because… what? He was a boy? He was the youngest?

That woman’s visit opened their eyes. Or maybe it just scared them into acting right. Either way, I felt seen for the first time in a long while.

A week later, I got home from school and found something on my bed — a small box with a note.

“I’m sorry. I should’ve done better. –Dad”

Inside was a new set of string lights — nicer than the ones I’d saved up for. And tucked underneath? A gift card to my favorite home decor store. It wasn’t everything. But it was something.

A start.

I don’t know if it was the fear of getting reported again or genuine guilt. But after that, things actually got more fair. My parents started giving me rides to work when it was too dark. They even let me move upstairs when my brother went to camp for the summer — just to “see how I liked it.” Spoiler: I liked it a lot.

And the best part? My aunt told me she was the one who made the anonymous call. She didn’t say it directly, but she smiled when I told her about Maritza, and said, “Sometimes adults need a reminder.”

I hugged her so hard I almost knocked her over.

Now I’ve started thinking about interior design as a career. It’s wild how something so small — string lights, a coat of paint — ended up changing so much. My parents and I still butt heads sometimes, but there’s more respect now. More balance.

Here’s what I learned: Sometimes the people who are supposed to protect you get it wrong. And when they do, you have every right to stand up for yourself. Or find someone who will.

It’s okay to ask for more. You deserve comfort, peace, and a space to just be. No matter your age.

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You’re not alone.