I used to babysit for a young single mom who lived two blocks away from my apartment. The house was never spotless—laundry piled on chairs, dishes in the sink—but I never mentioned it. I figured she had enough on her plate, working and raising a toddler on her own.
She always seemed exhausted. I admired her for trying, even when things looked chaotic. She’d apologize for the mess and say things like, “I don’t know how you stay so calm with my kid when I barely survive the day.”
Honestly, I liked babysitting her son. He was sweet, imaginative, and glued to my side the second I walked in the door. He called me “Miss Bea” and would draw me little stick figure pictures that I kept folded in my bag. He’d hand them to me like they were gold.
It wasn’t about the money. It was barely more than minimum wage. But I knew she was struggling, and I needed the experience for my child psychology degree. So, it felt like a win-win.
Until one Thursday afternoon, everything changed.
I had arrived early to let myself in, like I usually did, and she was in her bedroom with the door cracked open. I heard her voice, low and serious, on the phone. At first, I assumed it was a work call.
But then I heard her say something that made my stomach turn.
“She’s perfect. I’ve been documenting things, and once I report her, I’ll have grounds to sue. Then I can get subsidized daycare. It’s all about timing.”
I froze.
At first, I thought—She’s not talking about me. No way. But then she said, “Yeah, Bea. The nanny. She’s sweet and everything, but I have to look out for myself. It’s not personal.”
I backed away, quietly shutting the front door like I had just arrived. I knocked loud enough for her to hear me this time. She popped out of her room a moment later, smiling like nothing had happened.
“Hey, you’re early!” she said, brushing her hair back like she hadn’t just thrown me under a metaphorical bus. “Thank you so much for coming. You’re a lifesaver, as always.”
I nodded, keeping my face neutral. Inside, I was unraveling.
The next few hours were some of the hardest I’d ever worked. Not because of the toddler, but because I couldn’t stop running through what she’d said. She was planning to report me. She was pretending to like me while secretly taking notes to destroy me.
I thought maybe I had done something wrong without realizing it. But I kept records too. Every day, I wrote down activities, diaper changes, food he ate, even his moods. I had a whole notebook, just in case of emergency. I wasn’t stupid.
That night, I didn’t sleep. I kept thinking about that little boy, his smile, his drawings. I didn’t want to walk away from him, but I also wasn’t going to wait around to be sabotaged.
The next day, I called in sick. Then I started doing some digging.
I had a friend, Carla, who worked part-time at a local social services office. I asked her, off the record, what happens when someone files a daycare abuse complaint.
She told me it’s serious. Even if nothing is proven, just being accused can put you on a watchlist. I could lose future jobs. My school placement could be revoked.
“Why? Did something happen?” she asked.
I didn’t tell her everything. Just enough. She shook her head and said, “If she files anything, you better have receipts.”
So I gathered everything I had.
Screenshots of our text messages. Voice memos where she praised me. The notebook with the daily reports. Photos of the child’s artwork he gave me. I even downloaded the timestamps of every payment she’d sent me.
Then, I waited.
Two weeks passed. Things were tense between us. She still acted friendly, but I could feel it—the way her eyes lingered too long, how she checked everything I touched. She was watching me.
And then, like clockwork, it happened.
I got a call from a private number. It was a woman from Child Welfare Services.
“We received an anonymous complaint about potential neglect,” she said.
I wanted to scream, but instead I said calmly, “Would you like to come over? I have records.”
The woman seemed surprised but agreed. We set a time for the next morning.
That night, I stayed up making sure everything was in order. I even typed up a summary of events leading to that day. I was nervous, but mostly furious.
She had used me. Lied to me. And she didn’t even care about the risk to her own child, just to get cheaper daycare.
When the investigator came, I handed her a manila envelope. She flipped through the logs, photos, text messages. I watched her face go from cautious to stunned.
“Miss Bea,” she said, “this is the most detailed documentation I’ve ever seen from a sitter.”
She paused. “We do need to follow up with the parent. But based on this, I can assure you there’s no cause for concern on your end.”
It wasn’t over yet, though. I still had to face her.
I went to her place that afternoon, right before she got off work. I left a note and the key in her mailbox. The note was short:
“I know what you did. I heard the phone call. I hope you get the help you need. But I won’t be part of it anymore.”
Two days later, I got a message from her. It said, “I’m sorry. I didn’t think you’d find out. I was desperate.”
I didn’t reply.
A week later, Carla texted me.
“That mom you told me about?” she wrote. “She just applied for a daycare subsidy. Put your name down as a ‘terminated caregiver due to misconduct.’”
I nearly choked. Seriously?
I forwarded Carla the documents I had shared with the investigator. Within hours, the department flagged her application.
She was called in for an interview. During it, she stuck to her story—that I was unfit, neglectful, emotionally unstable. But the investigator brought out my records. Pointed out the contradiction between her timeline and my logs.
The kicker? Her own son, when asked about me, said, “Miss Bea always made the dragons go away when I was scared.”
She was denied the subsidy. And flagged.
Later, I heard she had to take time off work to stay home with her son. Her employer wasn’t happy, and she was eventually let go.
It wasn’t the outcome I wanted. I didn’t want revenge. I just wanted to be left alone.
But what I got was something better: the truth came out. And I learned to protect myself.
I took a break from babysitting for a few months. Focused on my classes. Did some volunteering at the university daycare.
One afternoon, a professor pulled me aside and said a couple she knew was looking for a part-time nanny for their daughter. They were careful, kind, and wanted someone patient and creative.
I hesitated, then said yes.
The first day I met them, the mom said, “We interviewed ten people. But your references? They practically glowed.”
Turns out, the investigator from Child Welfare had added a personal note in my file: “Highly competent and deeply caring.”
That note made it to my school placement record. Which made it to the university’s child development center. Which got me my next role.
That role led to a paid internship. And that internship? Landed me my first job out of college.
Looking back, I still think about that little boy. I hope he’s okay. I hope his mom got help.
But I don’t regret walking away. Because sometimes, kindness has to come with boundaries.
And sometimes, karma writes a better ending than you ever could.
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