When I was a little girl, my mother taught me how to use a code word if I was in trouble and couldn’t speak up. As an adult, I decided to impart this brilliant method to my baby girl. I figured she could use it to get out of sleepovers or if she had awkward hangouts. But I never imagined her needing to use it so soon.

So yesterday was like any other day—or so I thought. As I sat in my kitchen, finishing my evening coffee, my phone rang. It was my ex-husband, Dave. Our relationship, once filled with warmth and affection, had grown strained over the years.

Divorce had a way of doing that, and while we tried to maintain a civil relationship for the sake of our daughter, Amy, things were often tense. “Hey, Claire,” Dave’s voice came through, slightly hesitant. “Amy wants to talk to you. She’s been asking to tell you about her day since she got here.”

This caught me off guard. Amy usually enjoyed her sleepover weekends with her dad and rarely called me during those visits. “Oh, sure, put her on,” I replied, trying to keep my voice steady. The fact that Dave sounded a bit off only added to the unease that was beginning to settle in my stomach.

“Hi, Mom!” Amy’s voice was as cheerful as ever, but there was something in the way she spoke that I couldn’t quite place. This was unusual for her, so I perked up and listened intently.

“Hey, sweetie! How’s your weekend going? Have you been having fun?” I asked, hoping to keep the conversation light.

“Yeah, it’s been good. We went to the park yesterday, and I drew some pictures this morning. I drew a dog, a tree, and… I wish I had a blue marker so I could draw blueberries.”

The words hit me like a ton of bricks! There it was: our code word. My heart skipped a beat, and for a moment, I couldn’t find my voice. Among her childish chatter, Amy had dropped in our “password.”

When my daughter was younger, I taught her the importance of having a secret word. It was something she could use if she ever felt unsafe but couldn’t voice it outright.

“Blueberries” was our word, but I never imagined she would use it.

I swallowed hard and forced myself to stay calm because the word meant “get me out of here immediately.” “That sounds great, honey. I’m on my way to come get you. Please don’t say anything to your father. I’ll talk to him when I get there.”

“Did you have anything else you wanted to tell me?”
“No, that’s it,” she replied, her tone still sweet but carrying an undertone of something else; fear? Uncertainty? I couldn’t be sure, but I knew one thing: I had to get her out of there.

“I’ll see you soon, okay?” I said as nonchalantly as possible.
“Okay, Mom. Love you.”
“Love you too, my Amy Wamy.”
I heard her giggle as I hung up the phone, my hands trembling. My mind raced as I tried to figure out what could have happened. Dave had never given me any reason to doubt his ability to care for our daughter, but something was wrong.

I grabbed my keys, my mind made up. I had to go to my ex’s place and get Amy.

When I finally arrived, I took a deep breath and knocked on the door. To my surprise, it wasn’t Dave who opened it—it was his new girlfriend, Zeyna.

She gave me a tight smile, one that didn’t quite reach her eyes. “Hey, Claire… everything okay?”

I forced a polite nod. “Amy forgot something for school. Thought I’d grab her real quick.”

Dave appeared behind her, looking a little confused but not hostile. “You okay?” he asked. “Amy said she talked to you, but she didn’t say it was urgent.”

“She just sounded a little off,” I replied, trying to keep my tone neutral. “Mind if I talk to her?”

Dave stepped aside. “Of course not. She’s in her room drawing.”

I walked down the hallway, every step feeling like it took forever. When I opened Amy’s door, she looked up at me and her eyes welled instantly. Not dramatic tears—just that tight, scared kind of look.

“Hey, baby,” I said, crouching to her level.

She leaned in close and whispered, “Don’t let her hear.”

My heart thumped. “Zeyna?” I mouthed.

Amy nodded.

I took her hand. “Pack your things, sweetheart. We’re leaving.”

I walked back to the living room, holding her close. “She’s not feeling well,” I said. “Better I take her home.”

Zeyna’s smile was too quick. “Aw, tummy ache? Poor thing.”

Dave looked between us, eyebrows pulled together. “Amy, you said you were fine earlier.”

Amy stayed silent. I didn’t push her to speak in front of them. Instead, I just said, “We’ll talk later, okay? Thanks, Dave.”

He didn’t fight me, but his expression lingered in my mind as I left. Like he knew something didn’t add up—but not what.

It wasn’t until we were halfway home that Amy spoke. Her voice was quiet, but firm.

“She was being weird. Like… she kept making me go to my room, and locking her bedroom door when Daddy wasn’t home. I heard her talking to someone on the phone about me.”

My stomach twisted. “What did she say?”

Amy fiddled with her sleeves. “She said, ‘she’s a sweet kid, real easy to charm. You said your clients like that, right?’”

I almost pulled the car over. My head spun with a thousand awful interpretations, each one worse than the last.

“Did she ever hurt you?” I asked, keeping my voice from shaking.

Amy shook her head. “No. But I didn’t like how she looked at me when Daddy was gone.”

The pieces were falling into place, and it made me sick.

The first thing I did when we got home was call my sister, Laleh, who works in social services. I didn’t want to blow up Dave’s life unless I was sure.

Laleh told me to trust my gut—but to also report what Amy said. She helped me file a report anonymously, since we weren’t making direct accusations, just concerns about Zeyna’s behavior.

Meanwhile, I told Dave Amy had a stomach bug, and she’d be staying with me an extra night. He agreed without question.

Two days later, everything exploded.

A detective called me. They had opened an investigation, and something had come up. Zeyna had a sealed juvenile record for fraud and manipulation involving minors—something she never disclosed.

Worse, her phone records showed multiple messages to a man named Rogan—someone under investigation for grooming and trafficking. The police had been watching his circle quietly for months.

Zeyna’s involvement had flown under the radar—until Amy.

I couldn’t breathe when I heard it. Amy had spotted something, just enough to poke a hole in whatever mask Zeyna wore. That one word—blueberries—might have saved her life.

It still chills me to think about it.

When the police confronted Dave, he was blindsided. Utterly broken. He cooperated immediately, and they cleared him after a long interview. Turns out, Zeyna had been dating someone else on the side—Rogan—and using Dave as cover.

I should’ve hated Dave for bringing someone like her around our daughter. But truthfully, I pitied him. He had no idea.

After Zeyna was arrested, the guilt hit him like a truck. He broke down during a custody meeting and said, “I failed her. I should’ve known.”

But I looked at him and said something I never thought I would: “You trusted someone who fooled a lot of people. Let’s just not fail her again.”

From then on, everything changed between us.

We started attending co-parenting therapy. He made boundaries stricter around who got to be in Amy’s life. I stopped treating him like the enemy.

And Amy? She blossomed.

One day, a month later, she asked me, “Mom, what would’ve happened if I didn’t say blueberries?”

I hugged her tight. “Then maybe I would’ve taken longer to come get you. But I promise I still would’ve figured it out.”

And then she said, “Can we pick a new code word?”

I laughed through my tears. “Of course. You want to pick it?”
She nodded. “Let’s make it ‘dragonfruit.’ Nobody ever says dragonfruit.”

I agreed. That was perfect.

Here’s the thing I learned from all this—teach your kids how to speak up, even silently. Don’t be afraid to trust a weird feeling, even if it comes from someone you once trusted.

But most of all, give your kids the tools to protect themselves—and believe them when they use them.

Amy’s courage changed everything. And that one silly word—“blueberries”—turned out to be the most important thing she ever said.

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