Sure My Ex Set My Cat Free To Hurt Me—Until I Found Out What Really Happened

Sophie was having a rough patch and told me she needed space. I honestly didn’t get how you “pause” a relationship, but she insisted she needed time to figure things out and asked me not to bother her. I tried to respect that, though I wasn’t thrilled.

A few days later, I left her a voicemail, asking how she was and if she’d made up her mind about us, since she never gave me a straight answer. No reply. I assumed she was ghosting me.

Then three days after that, I adopted a cat—always wanted one, but Sophie was allergic, so it never happened before.

A week later, Sophie showed up “to talk,” and the moment she saw the cat, she flipped out, calling me selfish. We ended up in a heated fight.

The next morning, I saw my cat crouched under a neighbor’s car across the street, looking terrified. I was certain Sophie had let her loose. But no—someone broke into my apartment. That’s when my cat escaped.

Feeling terrible for blaming Sophie, I organised a special date night for us. Just as I was about to leave, my doorbell rang; it was one of my neighbors, and she had a story to tell.

Her name was Ruth, an older woman who lived two doors down. She looked nervous, almost guilty for even knocking. She glanced over her shoulder as though someone might be watching her, then leaned in close when I opened the door.

“I shouldn’t get involved,” she whispered, “but I saw something the other morning when your cat got out.”

I frowned. “What do you mean?”

Ruth tightened her cardigan around herself. “I was sitting in my car, warming it up before heading to the pharmacy. I saw a man running out of your apartment. At first I thought he was just a delivery guy in a hurry, but then I noticed he had something shiny in his hand. Looked like keys.”

My stomach dropped. “Keys? Mine?”

She nodded. “And your cat—well, he actually opened your door wide on purpose so the cat could leave. I thought that was strange. But that’s not all. I followed him.”

“You what?”

She gave a small shrug, as if embarrassed. “Nosy, I know. But this neighborhood’s not safe, and I didn’t want trouble spilling over. So I drove after him. He cut across two blocks and met a woman by the old bakery. They looked… friendly.”

I froze. “What woman?”

Ruth pressed her lips together like she was about to say something scandalous. “Your Sophie. I’d seen her around with you before. She was standing there waiting. He handed her something—keys. Looked like your set. Then they both walked off in different directions like they didn’t want to be seen together.”

My chest tightened. Keys. My keys. Sophie had the spare set I’d given her months ago. If Ruth was right, Sophie hadn’t just shown up angry about my cat. She’d orchestrated the whole thing.

I thanked Ruth, though I barely remember how the words came out. My ears were ringing. My mind was trying to protect me, whispering maybe Ruth was mistaken, maybe she was old and her eyes weren’t sharp. But deep down, I knew. Sophie always had a way of twisting situations until I doubted myself.

That night, I canceled the date. I sat in my dark apartment with my cat curled on my chest, trying to put the puzzle together. Sophie said she needed space. She ignored my calls. Then she randomly shows up furious about a cat? And suddenly, my apartment’s broken into and someone hands her my spare keys?

It wasn’t paranoia anymore. It was betrayal.

The next day, I played it cool. I texted Sophie, saying I wanted to make it up to her and asked if she’d like to come over. She replied quickly this time. “Maybe. I’ll let you know.”

That alone told me something. When I wanted to talk, she was unreachable. But when she thought there was something in it for her, she was all ears.

I decided to set a little trap. I called a locksmith, had all the locks changed, and added a security camera just inside the hallway facing my front door. The locksmith even shook his head when he saw my old locks. “Easy to pop open with the right trick,” he muttered. “Good thing you’re upgrading.”

Two nights later, Sophie texted. “I’ll come by tomorrow, we should talk.”

When she showed up, she acted like nothing was wrong. She was all smiles, even reaching down to pet the cat she once claimed made her allergic. I watched her closely. The smile was fake, the kind she used when she wanted something.

I asked her point blank, “Do you still have the spare keys to my place?”

She hesitated, then shook her head. “No, I tossed them ages ago when we fought last spring. Why?”

Lie. I felt it in my bones. But I pretended to buy it. We ordered food, had a decent evening, and she left around eleven.

The next morning, I checked the security footage.

Around 2:15 a.m., someone jiggled my lock. The door didn’t budge—new locks. A man’s shadow shifted in the hallway, fiddling with something. After thirty seconds, he gave up and left.

I froze the frame. The man wasn’t anyone I recognized, but he was holding a key ring.

That was it. Sophie hadn’t just cheated. She’d tried to set me up, maybe even rob me blind.

I couldn’t sit on it. I called her that afternoon.

“We need to talk. Come over.”

She sighed into the phone. “Can’t we just do this later? I’m swamped.”

“No. Tonight.”

When she arrived, I had the footage paused on my TV screen. The moment she walked in, I hit play. Her face drained of color.

“You gave him my keys,” I said quietly. “Didn’t you?”

She opened her mouth, shut it, then tried again. “It’s not what it looks like.”

“Then explain it.”

She stammered. “He’s just a friend—he needed money, I owed him a favor, I didn’t think he’d actually use them—”

My blood boiled. “You handed a stranger access to my home. To me. To my cat.”

Her voice rose, defensive. “Don’t make it sound like I broke in myself. He was the one who—”

I cut her off. “You’re done. Get out.”

For once, she didn’t fight me. She grabbed her bag, muttered something under her breath, and slammed the door.

I thought that would be the end of it.

But two days later, I came home from work to find my window smashed and my living room ransacked. They hadn’t taken much—just my laptop, some watches, a bit of cash. But the message was clear. Sophie wasn’t finished.

I called the police, filed a report, handed over the footage and Ruth’s testimony. The officer looked grim. “If she’s tied to this guy, we’ll find her. But don’t contact her again. Let us handle it.”

Weeks passed. I changed routines, stopped going to places I knew she hung around. My cat became my anchor, curling up on me when the stress got too heavy.

Then one morning, Ruth knocked again. She handed me an envelope. “This was in my mailbox by mistake.”

It was addressed to Sophie, no return address. Inside was a note scrawled in messy handwriting:

“You owe me more. I took the risk. Don’t forget who’s really in charge.”

Ruth looked at me with sad eyes. “She’s in over her head, isn’t she?”

I nodded. “Deeper than she knows.”

A month later, the police called. They’d arrested a man connected to several burglaries across the city. When they raided his place, they found a stash of stolen goods—including my laptop. And in his phone? Messages to Sophie. Explicit ones.

She wasn’t just cheating on me. She was working with him. Setting up people she knew. Giving him keys, codes, inside details. I was just one name on her list.

When the case went to trial, she tried to play innocent. Claimed she was manipulated, that she didn’t know what he was really doing. But the jury saw through it. Between the texts, the testimony, and the footage from my apartment, she was found guilty of conspiracy to commit burglary.

I sat in the courtroom, my cat safe at home, and felt a strange mix of relief and grief. Relief that it was finally over. Grief that the woman I once loved had fallen so low.

When she was sentenced to time in county jail, I didn’t cheer. I just walked out into the sunlight and took a deep breath.

Life got quieter after that. I adopted a second cat so mine would have company. I started volunteering at an animal shelter on weekends. Somewhere along the way, I realized Sophie had actually done me a favor. By betraying me, she forced me to finally build the life I wanted, free from her constant drama.

The lesson? Sometimes the people you love most are the ones who’ll hurt you deepest. But when the truth comes out, you can either let it break you—or let it set you free.

My cats don’t care about drama. They care about food, warmth, and a little love. And that’s more loyalty than Sophie ever gave me.

So if someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time. Don’t wait for the break-ins, the lies, and the heartbreak. Trust yourself enough to walk away sooner.

Because peace is worth more than any illusion of love.

If this story hit home for you, share it with someone who needs a reminder that walking away isn’t losing—it’s winning your life back.