My dad never allowed us to meet Grandma. He said, “Consider her dead.” Mom would stay quiet.
I always assumed she was a bad person until I started working as a nurse.
One day, I saw her name and froze when I went to see her. This woman turned out to be Margaret Evelyn Harwoodโmy dad’s mother. She was lying in a hospital bed, fragile, her hands bruised from years of needle pricks and arthritis. Her white hair was pulled back neatly, and her green eyesโso much like my brotherโsโwere filled with pain, not just physical, but something deeper.
I didn’t tell her who I was at first. I couldnโt. My hands trembled the whole time I took her vitals. She was polite, even warm. โThank you, dear,โ she said softly. โYouโve got gentle hands.โ
I walked out of her room that day completely rattled. Everything Dad had ever said about her came rushing back. He called her cruel, selfish, manipulative. He used to say she abandoned the family and never looked back. But the woman Iโd just met didnโt feel like any of those things.
I asked around. One of the older nurses, Teresa, had been with the hospital for years. โMargaretโs a sweetheart,โ she told me. โShe used to volunteer here before her health declined. Always brought flowers for the other patients.โ That didnโt line up with the villain Dad had described.
The next day, I brought her tea. โChamomile,โ I said. โHelps with sleep.โ She smiled and said, โThat was my daughterโs favorite. She passed.โ My heart thudded in my chest. My dad had a sister? That was news to me.
I sat on the edge of her bed. โIโm sorry to hear that,โ I said. โWhat was her name?โ
โRachel,โ she whispered, her eyes watering. โMy darling girl. She died in a car accident. She was only twenty-five.โ I swallowed hard. I never heard Dad mention a sisterโnot once.
A few days later, I found myself staying longer in Margaretโs room after my shift. Weโd talk about books, music, and the weather. I still hadnโt told her who I was. I kept waiting for some cruel side to come out. But it never did.
Then one night, she asked if I had children. I told her no. โAre you married?โ she asked. โNot yet,โ I said. โBut I have a partner. His nameโs Martin.โ She chuckled. โMartinโs a solid name. That was my late husbandโs name too.โ
I decided to look deeper. I went through old photo albums at my parentsโ house while they were out. Tucked in the back of a drawer was a faded photograph of a young woman holding a baby. On the back, in Grandmaโs neat cursive, it said, โRachel and Ben โ 1985.โ My dadโs name is Ben.
There it was. Proof he had a sister. And that she had a childโme.
The next day, I sat with Margaret and asked, โDid you and your son ever make up?โ
Her expression changed. Her smile dropped. โNo,โ she said slowly. โHe told me never to contact him again. After Rachel diedโฆ he said it was my fault.โ
โWas it?โ
She shook her head, but her eyes clouded. โNo. She had been staying with me. She went out that night with friends, andโฆโ She trailed off, staring at her hands. โBen blamed me. Said I should have stopped her. Said I let her die.โ
I felt something twist in my chest. Was that it? Thatโs what tore the family apart?
She looked at me, eyes filled with sorrow. โI wrote him letters. Called. Sent gifts when I found out he had children. But everything came back unopened.โ
I finally told her. โIโm one of those children.โ Her hands flew to her mouth. โMy nameโs Isla. Ben is my father.โ
She stared at me, stunned. Her eyes filled with tears. โIslaโฆโ she whispered, repeating it like a prayer. โYouโre real.โ
I nodded. โAnd I think itโs time we talk.โ
Over the next few weeks, we met more and more. She told me about her life, how she raised two kids on her own after Grandpa died. She admitted she was strict, maybe even cold at times. โBut never unloving,โ she insisted.
I told her about my siblingsโOliver and Juneโand how none of us ever knew she existed.
One night, she handed me a stack of letters. โI kept every single one I wrote him. He never replied. But theyโre yours if you want them.โ
Reading them broke my heart. She apologized again and again. She asked about us, begged to meet us, said she prayed for us every night. There were even birthday cardsโnever opened.
When I confronted my dad, he exploded. โWhy would you go see her?โ he shouted. โShe doesnโt deserve to be in our lives.โ
I asked him what really happened. He paced around the room like a caged animal before finally sitting down and rubbing his temples.
โShe let Rachel go out drunk that night,โ he muttered. โI told her to keep her safe. And she didnโt.โ
โYou think she let her die?โ I asked.
โShe didnโt stop her,โ he said.
โShe was an adult,โ I pointed out. โYou canโt control everything.โ
He didnโt respond. He just shook his head.
I told him I was going to keep seeing her. โSheโs not the monster you painted her to be,โ I said. โSheโs lonely and sick, and sheโs never stopped loving you.โ
He didnโt speak to me for two weeks.
Margaretโs health began declining faster than expected. Her liver was failing, and the doctors said it was only a matter of weeks. I sat by her side most nights, reading to her, telling her about my childhoodโthe parts she missed. She always smiled, even through the pain.
One day, she whispered, โI wish I could see themโall of you. Just once.โ
I decided to bring my siblings. They were skeptical at first but agreed. June was the first to soften. โShe reminds me of Dad,โ she said, laughing through tears. โSame stubbornness.โ Oliver stayed quiet, but he squeezed her hand when we left.
They began visiting her too.
One night, I found Dad waiting outside the hospital. He looked torn. โI came to see her,โ he said, voice barely audible. โJust once.โ
He didnโt say anything during the visit. Margaret just stared at him, eyes full of tears. She whispered his name. โBen.โ
He looked at her for a long time. Then he walked over and kissed her forehead.
The next morning, she was gone.
We held a small funeral. Margaret had no other close family left, and most of her friends had passed. But all of us were thereโmy dad, my siblings, Martin, even Mom.
Afterwards, Dad handed me something. โShe left this for you.โ
It was a small wooden box filled with family heirloomsโold rings, black-and-white photos, and a journal sheโd kept since she was a teen. On the first page, in fading ink, it said: โFamily means everything. Even if they forget you, never forget them.โ
We read it together that night.
Dad didnโt say much, but I noticed he kept a photo of her in his wallet after that. He never admitted he was wrongโnot in words. But he started bringing up childhood stories that included her. Little things. That was enough.
A month later, a letter came. It was from a charity. Margaret had left a small sum in her will for a childrenโs reading program at the library. โFor the little ones I never got to read to,โ it said.
It gutted me.
I still visit that library sometimes. Thereโs a plaque on the wall that says, โIn memory of Margaret Evelyn Harwood โ A grandmother at heart.โ
I bring my niece there now. We read books together in the sunlit corner with the rug and beanbags.
Sometimes you grow up believing someoneโs a villain just because thatโs what you were told. But the truthโs often messy. Pain turns people into ghosts, but love brings them backโif you let it.
Iโm glad I did.
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