I had my final interview with a software company for a senior developer role. Everything went well, it screamed “dream job”, until the HR lady smiled and said, “Just one last question.” Imagine my shock when she hit me with, โWhat would your worst enemy say about you?โ
For a moment, I just stared at her. I wasnโt sure if it was a trick or one of those personality curveballs. I laughed awkwardly, hoping sheโd move on, but she kept her gaze steady, like she really wanted an answer.
I cleared my throat. โProbably that I donโt let things go. That I hold grudges.โ
She nodded, jotting something down. โInteresting.โ
And that was it. She thanked me, shook my hand, and said theyโd be in touch. I left the building with my brain still spinning from the question. The rest of the interview had gone smoothlyโtechnical tests, architecture questions, cultural fit. Then that.
I tried to brush it off, but it gnawed at me all the way home. Maybe I shouldnโt have been so honest. Maybe I shouldโve given a fluff answer like, โIโm a perfectionist!โ or โI care too much!โ But that wasnโt me.
Two days passed. Then five. Nothing.
I sent a polite follow-up email, just in case.
The reply came on day seven: โThank you for your time. While we were impressed, weโve decided to move forward with another candidate.โ
I stared at the screen for a long time. I hadnโt wanted a job that badly in years. Iโd left my last role after my old team leadโEvanโbasically took credit for months of work Iโd done and made it look like I was the one holding the team back. It had been a bitter ending.
But this job? This one had felt like a clean slate.
I went back to freelancing. Nothing wrong with thatโit paid the bills. Still, I couldnโt shake the feeling that Iโd blown my one shot.
Weeks passed. I got an email from a client, Sara, asking if I could help with a legacy system overhaul. It was messy backend work, nothing glamorous, but she was always respectful, paid on time, and let me work on my own terms.
โSure,โ I replied. โSend over the repo.โ
The project started quietly. Old code, ancient dependencies, spaghetti logicโmy kind of party. But then something weird popped up. There was a private repo linked inside a config file, named E.Freeman_ProjectVault.
I opened it. My jaw dropped.
It was a snapshot of code Iโd written a year agoโspecifically, part of the work that Evan had claimed as his own. Even the commit messages had my nicknames embedded in themโstuff like โtimbo-tweak-dbโโa little running joke I used for years.
Apparently, Evan hadnโt just claimed my workโheโd packaged it, repurposed it, and used it across multiple contracts. Including this one.
I called Sara.
โHey,โ I said, trying to keep my voice calm. โThis backendโdid someone else set this up before?โ
She hesitated. โYeah. Some guy named Evan. Why?โ
I explained. As gently as I could, I laid out the plagiarism, the reuse of proprietary code, even the commit trail. She went quiet.
โAre you sure about this?โ
โI have receipts,โ I said.
Within two hours, I was on a call with Sara, her CTO, and legal. I shared everything. They listened, took notes, asked questions. Then thanked me and promised to โlook into it.โ
That night, I didnโt sleep. Part of me felt vindicated. But another part of me felt like Iโd just stepped into a mess I didnโt want to revisit.
A few days later, Sara messaged me: โWe dropped Evan. You were right. And thank youโwe owe you big time.โ
I shrugged it off, but it still felt like something unfinished. Like Iโd stirred up a storm and walked away just as it started to rain.
Then came the twist I never saw coming.
A few weeks after that, I got a call from the software company Iโd interviewed withโthe one that rejected me. It was a new voice this time. A woman named Beth, the head of engineering.
โHey, Tim. I know this is out of the blue, butโฆ do you have a few minutes?โ
โSure,โ I said cautiously.
โIโll be straight with you. You were our top candidate. But HR flagged a concern. That final question? The one about enemies?โ
I nodded, even though she couldnโt see me.
โWell, turns out, the person who raised that question had a personal relationship with Evan Freeman. Small world, huh?โ
My mouth went dry.
โShe flagged your answer as a red flag. Said it showed an unwillingness to collaborate. But after recent eventsโโher voice sharpenedโโand some information passed our way by a certain Sara Thompson, we took a second look.โ
โYouโre sayingโฆ?โ
โWeโd like to bring you on. But under better terms. Senior Engineer II, with a leadership track. Weโd also love your input on vetting our contractor relationships, given what came up.โ
It took me a second to respond.
โI accept,โ I said, barely above a whisper.
The first few weeks at the new job were surreal. People were kind. Meetings were actually productive. And Beth? She was everything a leader should beโsharp, honest, and fiercely protective of her team.
One afternoon, I passed HR in the hallway. The same woman whoโd asked the โenemyโ question stood at the desk, typing. She looked up, recognized me, and nodded. It wasnโt cold. It wasnโt warm either. Justโฆ neutral.
Later that week, Beth called me into her office.
โI wanted to tell you something,โ she said. โThe HR manager? She resigned last week. Apparently, this wasnโt the first time sheโd let personal bias interfere with decisions. Weโre cleaning house.โ
I didnโt know what to say. But inside, something unclenched.
Months passed. I settled into the role. Led my first sprint team. Mentored a junior dev named Nadia, who reminded me so much of younger me it was freaky. She had ideas, passion, and a sense of humor that made even refactoring sessions bearable.
One day, she stayed back after our code review.
โTim,โ she said, โcan I ask you something?โ
โShoot.โ
โWhatโs the hardest thing youโve had to let go of in your career?โ
I blinked. For a second, I saw myself in that old HR chair, trying to answer that awful question.
I smiled.
โThe idea that things should be fair,โ I said. โI used to believe hard work always got rewarded. That talent beat politics. But it doesnโt always. Sometimes, you get stepped on. Sometimes, you lose.โ
She frowned. โThat sounds depressing.โ
โIt does,โ I agreed. โBut hereโs the twist: If you hang on to your integrity, even when no oneโs watching? Eventually, someone will notice. Might take longer. Might be the long road. But it lasts.โ
She nodded slowly. โThanks, Tim.โ
I watched her walk off and thought about everything that had brought me hereโEvan, the missed opportunity, the twist of fate that pulled it all back around.
Funny how it all hinged on one weird question. A question meant to trap me, but ended up exposing someone else.
Sometimes, being honestโeven when it costs youโleads to doors you didnโt know existed.
The job I have now? Itโs not just better on paper. Itโs better in spirit. A team that values real feedback. A boss who backs her people. Work that feels like it matters.
And the best part? I didnโt have to become someone else to get it. I stayed meโeven when it felt like that might be the thing holding me back.
Turns out, it was the thing that set me free.
So, if someone ever asks you what your worst enemy would say about youโdonโt sugarcoat it.
Tell them the truth.
The ones worth working with wonโt punish you for being real. Theyโll reward you for it.
And maybeโjust maybeโyouโll get to tell your own story one day, not as the person who got lucky, but as the one who kept showing up.
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