“You Should Be Kissing My Feet!” My Husband Screamed At Me One Night

“WHAT IS THIS?!” my husband, Rick, shook the wrinkled shirt in front of my face. “WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO WEAR TO WORK TOMORROW?”

I barely looked up from my laptop, where I was reviewing contracts for a client deadline. “It’s 9 p.m., Rick. There are clean, ironed shirts in the closet.”

“Where? This one?” He yanked out a light-blue one, practically vibrating with rage.

“I asked for that one! Are you kidding me? And dinner? Overcooked meat with mushy rice. What exactly do you do all day?”

“Rick, I’m working. Order takeout if it’s that bad,” I had no strength to fight.

His face turned purple.

“UNBELIEVABLE!” He threw the shirt on the bed. “I work myself to the bone to support this family, and you can’t do the basics?! YOU SHOULD BE KISSING MY FEET!” he barked.

“Who would even want a divorcรฉe with baggage?” He angrily added.

Then he grabbed his keys and slammed the door like a hormonal teenager having a tantrum. He didn’t come home for three days.

Three days later, I got a call that turned my life upside down. I grabbed my purse and got in the car.

The voice on the phone had been brief. โ€œMrs. Fields? Your husbandโ€™s been admitted. Car accident. Not life-threatening, butโ€ฆ heโ€™s asking for you.โ€

I wasnโ€™t sure how I felt during the drive to the hospital. Not scared. Not angry. Justโ€ฆ hollow. Like someone had scooped me out with a spoon.

When I walked into his hospital room, he was wrapped in bandages and bruises. His right arm was in a cast, and his eyes looked swollen. But what hit me hardest was the way he looked at meโ€”like a lost boy.

โ€œYou came,โ€ he whispered, his voice hoarse.

I nodded. โ€œYou called.โ€

He tried to smile. โ€œI messed up.โ€

I didnโ€™t respond. Instead, I stood at the foot of the bed, arms crossed. My heart was screaming a thousand things at once, but my mouth stayed shut.

โ€œI hit a pole. I was drunk. I know I shouldnโ€™t have driven. Iโ€”Iโ€™ve been an ass, havenโ€™t I?โ€

I didnโ€™t deny it. โ€œYes. You have.โ€

Tears welled in his eyes. I wasnโ€™t used to seeing him cry. Rick had always been the guy who had to be right, who needed control. Emotions were for the weak, heโ€™d once said.

โ€œI donโ€™t know how to fix this,โ€ he said quietly.

โ€œYou can start by not blaming me for everything that goes wrong in your life,โ€ I answered.

He nodded, then looked away. โ€œIโ€™m sorry. Really.โ€

It was the first time in years I heard him say that without sarcasm or strings attached.

That night, I didnโ€™t stay long. I left him with his thoughts and went home. The house was quiet. Peaceful, even. I sat on the couch and criedโ€”not because of fear or sadnessโ€”but because I realized something: I didnโ€™t miss him.

Rick came home a week later with a limp and a slightly deflated ego. The doctor told him he couldnโ€™t work for at least six weeks. That meant I had to take over more of the bills, the errands, the cooking. And surprisingly, I didnโ€™t mindโ€”because for once, he started saying thank you.

But something was still off.

One morning, I overheard him on the phone while I brought him tea. His voice was hushed, but I caught enough.

โ€œNo, she doesnโ€™t suspect anything. Just give me time to get the money.โ€

I froze. My heart skipped a beat.

I slowly backed away and didnโ€™t say a word. That afternoon, while he napped, I checked our joint account. $9,000 was missing. Justโ€ฆ gone.

My fingers trembled as I opened the statements. Transfers to a woman named โ€œAlyssa V.โ€

I didnโ€™t know any Alyssa. But I had a feeling Rick did.

I hired a private investigator. I didnโ€™t want to jump to conclusions, but something in my gut told me to trust myself. A week later, I had the truth.

Rick had been seeing Alyssa for months. She was twenty-six, worked part-time at a tanning salon, and was, apparently, โ€œfunโ€ and โ€œlow maintenanceโ€โ€”Rickโ€™s words, captured in one of the PIโ€™s recordings.

I was done.

I didnโ€™t scream. I didnโ€™t cry. I made copies of everythingโ€”the bank records, the photos, the phone logsโ€”and walked into our living room where he was watching reruns and pretending to be the worldโ€™s most injured man.

I dropped the folder on his lap. โ€œThought you might want to explain who Alyssa is.โ€

He looked at the folder. Then at me. His face drained of color.

โ€œIโ€”it’s not what it looks like.โ€

I laughed. Actually laughed. โ€œRick. For once, just stop lying.โ€

He looked down. Then tried to stand. โ€œI can fix this.โ€

โ€œNo, you canโ€™t,โ€ I said quietly. โ€œBecause Iโ€™m not broken. You are. And I wonโ€™t be dragged down anymore.โ€

I left that night. I stayed with my sister for a while, then got my own apartment. Small, cozy, and quiet. My clients stayed loyal, and with Rick out of the picture, I had more focus, more peace.

The divorce wasnโ€™t messy. I had proof. And honestly, I think he was too embarrassed to fight. He signed the papers within a month. I walked away with a decent settlement and my dignity.

Six months later, I ran into Alyssa.

She was working at a diner I sometimes visited for coffee. She didnโ€™t recognize me at first.

โ€œIโ€™ll be with you in a sec,โ€ she said, balancing a tray of dirty dishes.

When she finally came over and looked at my face, her eyes widened. โ€œOh. Oh my God. Youโ€™reโ€ฆโ€

โ€œYep.โ€

She set down the coffee cup. โ€œI didnโ€™t know he was married when we started. I swear. He said he was separated.โ€

I nodded. โ€œI figured.โ€

She looked tired. Older than twenty-six, honestly. โ€œHe left me too. Took two grand from my savings and disappeared. Said he was going to โ€˜rebuild his life.โ€™โ€

I stared at her. Part of me wanted to gloat. But the other partโ€ฆ felt sorry for her.

โ€œYou deserve better,โ€ I said.

She blinked. โ€œYouโ€™re not mad?โ€

โ€œI was. But now? Iโ€™m justโ€ฆ free.โ€

She smiled a little. โ€œWell, if it makes you feel any better, heโ€™s been banned from three bars downtown and owes a buddy of mine two monthsโ€™ rent.โ€

It did make me feel a little better.

I left a big tip and walked out with a spring in my step. I didnโ€™t care what happened to Rick anymore. That chapter was over.

A few weeks after that, I joined a book club. Just something to get me out of the house. I met peopleโ€”real, kind, interesting people. One of them, Mark, was a retired firefighter. He brought fresh scones to every meeting and always listened more than he spoke.

One night, he asked if Iโ€™d like to grab coffee outside the club. Just us. I hesitated. I wasnโ€™t sure I was ready.

But I said yes.

Coffee turned into dinner, and dinner turned into long walks and real conversations. No yelling. No accusations. No one throwing shirts or slamming doors.

He didnโ€™t โ€œsaveโ€ me. I had already done that myself. But he reminded me that I still deserved warmth. And respect. And laughter.

One night, I told him everything. About Rick. The shirt. The car crash. Alyssa.

He listened. Then simply said, โ€œYou deserved better then. Iโ€™m glad you found your way out.โ€

Sometimes, life doesnโ€™t give us the closure we want. But it gives us something better: a chance to start over.

Iโ€™m not angry anymore. I donโ€™t flinch when someone raises their voice. I donโ€™t walk on eggshells or wait for someone to blow up over nothing.

I live in a home filled with peace. With books on the shelves, fresh flowers on the windowsill, and laughter in the kitchen.

And every now and then, I think back to that night, when Rick screamed that I should be kissing his feet.

And I laugh.

Because now? I donโ€™t kneel for anyone.

Life has a funny way of showing you what youโ€™re truly worth. Sometimes it starts with a wrinkled shirtโ€”and ends with a life you never thought youโ€™d have.

If you’ve ever been made to feel small, remember: you are not the problem. You are not โ€œtoo muchโ€ or โ€œnot enough.โ€ You’re just with the wrong person.

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