Roman has a thing he does with the car door. He closes it, opens it an inch, closes it again, so he hears it latch twice. He did that on Tuesday, October 20, buckled himself in behind the passenger seat, put his forehead near the glass, and somewhere around the car wash he told me a man comes into my bedroom every night after I fall asleep.

He said it the way you’d say it might rain.

“He only ever goes to Mom’s side.”

I nearly put us in the next lane. He didn’t look scared. He looked bored. I watched him in the mirror all the way to the drop-off loop, waiting for the grin he gets when he’s hidden my keys, and it never showed up. At 7:50 he kissed my cheek and ran.

I was supposed to be at the tile yard at eight-thirty. I drove home instead.

Kerri was standing in our kitchen when she should have been behind the front desk at the dental office. Long sleeves buttoned at the wrist, 81 degrees out, shadows under her eyes like somebody had pressed two thumbs there. “You forget something?” she said, and went stiff when I got close.

I called in sick from the driveway.

At noon she took a call into the laundry room and didn’t quite shut the door. “Same time. Once he’s out.” Then she came out with towels on her hip and asked about spaghetti.

At bedtime Roman told me Mom doesn’t yell. She just looks sad.

At 10:45 Kerri got into bed smelling like soap and a flu-shot wipe and asked if I’d eaten my gummy. I said yes. It went into a tissue, the tissue went into my pajama pocket, and I fake-snored until 2:40, when the door opened and a tall man with a gray lunch bag walked to her side like he owned the rug and said her name.

Gloves snapped. A zipper ran. Something cold landed on the nightstand.

Kerri pulled her collar down, and something silver caught the hall light.

I had my finger on the lamp switch.

The lamp

I hit it.

Forty watts. It felt like a stadium.

The man went still the way people do in a store when a display tips, both hands up, and in one of them was a syringe with no needle on it, just a white cap. Kerri’s eyes came open and found me and she said, “Jimmy, no. Don’t. Don’t touch him.”

Not don’t touch me. Him.

I was out of the bed. I don’t remember the blanket. I remember the floor was cold and that I was wearing the pajama pants with the little anchors on them that her mother bought me, and that this was the outfit I was going to defend my marriage in.

“Who the hell are you.”

“Varun,” he said. “I’m a nurse. I’m her nurse. Sir, I need you to let me finish, because this line is open.” He nodded at her chest, careful, like the nod might spook me. “If I stop now it’s worse for her. Two minutes. Then you can do whatever you want to me.”

Under Kerri’s collarbone, just right of center, was a raised bump about the size of a quarter under the skin, with a thin clear tube coming out of it. The silver was the little needle seated in it, taped down with a square of clear film. I had kissed that spot. I was sure I had. When? When had I last pulled her collar anywhere?

“Kerri,” I said.

“Let him do it,” she said. “Please. Then yell.”

So I stood there in my anchors and let a stranger flush my wife.

He did it like a man making toast. Wipe the cap, count under his breath, push the saline slow, wipe again. The soft cold thing on the nightstand was an ice pack with a small bag of medicine on top of it, and he hung that bag off the pull chain of her lamp, which I had never in my life thought of as medical equipment. It started to drip.

“Thirty minutes on this one,” he said, to her, not me. Then, because I was a person in the room with fists, he said it to me too. “Thirty minutes.”

“What is it.”

Kerri looked at the ceiling. Varun looked at Kerri.

“You tell him or I tell him,” he said. “I’m not doing another night of this, Kerri. I told you on the phone.”

Same time. Once he’s out. That was the phone.

She turned her face toward the wall and said it into the pillow. “Endocarditis.”

I sell grout. I know forty kinds of grout. I did not know that word.

“Heart valve infection,” Varun said. “Bacteria got on one of the valves. It’s treated. She’s doing well. It’s twelve weeks of IV antibiotics through that port, every night. She started August third.”

August third.

I knew August third. August third was the first night there was a purple gummy on my nightstand. I’d come home from my third week at the yard with my back screaming, and there it was on a folded napkin, and she’d said, “You’ve been tossing. Try it.” I thought it was the sweetest thing anybody had done for me in eight months.

Eight months was how long I was out of work before the yard. Eight months of me in the kitchen at ten a.m. refreshing job boards and pretending not to see her do the math on the electric bill.

“Since August,” I said.

“Seventy-eight days,” Kerri said. Of course she knew the number. She’d been counting them down.

“And the gummy.”

She didn’t answer. That was the answer.

The door moved behind me.

I turned and there was Roman in the hall light, in his rocket shirt, one sock on, squinting at the lamp like it had insulted him.

“Hey, Roman,” Varun said. “Bathroom?”

“Yeah,” Roman said. “Hi, Varun.”

My nine-year-old son knew this man’s name. My son had said I don’t know his name to me in the car, and that was true, I believed it was true, because Roman doesn’t lie. Except here was Hi, Varun, easy, like a crossing guard.

“You told me you didn’t know his name,” I said.

Roman thought about it. “You asked what man,” he said. “I didn’t know he was a man with a name. Mom just says the nurse.”

“Kerri.”

“I never told him it was a secret,” she said, very fast. “I told him the nurse comes to help Mommy sleep and he shouldn’t wake Daddy because Daddy has work.”

“I didn’t wake you,” Roman said to me, proud.

“No, bud. You didn’t.”

He went to the bathroom. We all listened to him count nothing, because it wasn’t the stairs, and flush, and walk back, and his door close.

The bag dripped.

Varun peeled off one glove and said, “I’m going to wait in the hall till it’s done. You two should talk.” Then he looked straight at me, and it was the first time he’d looked at me all night, maybe all seventy-eight nights. “The gummy wasn’t my idea. I never suggested it. She came up with that herself. I want that on the record.”

He stepped out and pulled the door, and this time the hinge didn’t make a sound because he’d oiled it.

Kerri finally looked at me.

“Say it,” she said. “Whatever you’re going to say.”

I reached into my pocket and put the balled-up tissue on her nightstand, right next to the ice pack.

The tissue

She stared at it like it might move.

“You didn’t eat it,” she said.

“No.”

“Since when?”

“Since tonight. Since our son told me in the car that a man walks into our room every night, and then I heard you in the laundry room say once he’s out.” I sat down on the end of the bed because my legs had decided. “You know what I thought, right? You know what I’ve been thinking since seven-thirty this morning?”

Her chin went. Just the chin first. “I know.”

“I called in sick. I sat in this house all day listening to the dryer and thinking about which one of the guys from your office it was. I had it down to two. I had it down to Aaron the hygienist, Kerri. I was going to hurt Aaron. Aaron is five foot four.”

She made a noise that was half a laugh and all crying.

“You put something in me every night so I wouldn’t wake up.”

“It’s melatonin. It’s the kids’ one. It’s three milligrams.”

“I don’t care if it’s a Flintstone. You decided I should be asleep. You decided for me.”

“You’d have quit.”

She said it loud. Loud enough that the bag swung on the lamp chain and Varun’s shadow shifted under the door.

“You’d have quit,” she said again, quieter, and wiped her face with the back of the hand that didn’t have a tube going into her chest. “You started July. You’d been home eight months, Jimmy. You were so sad. You stopped shaving. You’d stand at the window when the mail came. And then you got the yard and you came home the first day and you told me about the guy who wanted gray grout for a white bathroom and you did his voice, you did a voice, you hadn’t done a voice since Christmas. And three weeks later I’m in the ER with a fever of a hundred and three and a doctor saying valve.”

“Where was I?”

“At work. It was a Saturday. You picked up the Saturday.”

I had. I’d been proud of it.

“They said twelve weeks of IV. They said either I go to a center every day or a nurse comes. And I knew you. You’d have said I’ll do it, you’d have called that yard and said family emergency and they’d have said fine and in two weeks they’d have said we need someone who shows up. And you’d be at that window again. Because of me.”

“So you had a stranger come into our bedroom.”

“Varun’s shift ends at two. It was the only slot. I told myself one week. Then you were sleeping so good.” She laughed again, terrible. “You were sleeping so good, Jimmy. You’d snore and I’d lie there with this thing in me thinking, at least he’s sleeping.”

“And the long sleeves.”

“The bruising on my arm from the first line. Before the port.” She pushed one cuff up. Yellow-green going down her forearm like spilled tea. “It’s mostly gone.”

“And you took days off.”

“Phyllis covers my mornings when I’m too tired. I said it was a cleaning schedule thing.”

Phyllis. Phyllis knew. Varun knew. Roman, in a way, knew. The emergency room knew. Her mother — I looked at her.

“Does your mother know?”

She didn’t answer, which was yes.

I stood up. I had to. “Your mother knows. Phyllis from the front desk knows. A nurse I’ve never met has a better idea of where our hall rug sits than I do. And I’m the guy you’ve been dosing.”

“Don’t say it like that.”

“How should I say it? Tell me the nice way.”

She didn’t have one. I watched her look for it.

“You let me think it,” I said. “Tonight. You lay there with your eyes open. You knew I was faking. You know my sleeping, you’ve known it twelve years, I know you knew. And you let me lie there thinking you were cheating on me rather than turn around and tell me you were sick.”

“I was going to tell you on the twenty-sixth,” she said. “Last dose. I had it planned. I was going to make a cake.”

“A cake.”

“A your wife didn’t die cake. With a valve on it. I don’t know. I didn’t plan the cake part.”

The door clicked. Varun put his head in, eyes on the bag, not on us. “Five more minutes,” he said, and went back out.

I paced to the window. Our side yard. Roman’s bike on its side in the grass where he always leaves it.

“You were right,” I said.

She waited.

“I’d have quit. Monday morning. I’d have been on the phone with the yard before you got out of the car.”

“I know.”

“That doesn’t make it okay.”

“I know that too.”

“You made our kid carry it. He didn’t know he was carrying it. That’s worse.”

She broke then. Properly. Both hands over her face, the tube pulling, and I said, “Careful, careful, the thing,” and then I was beside her holding her wrist down off the line, and she was crying into my anchors, and she said into my shirt, “I was so scared. I was so scared, Jimmy, I was so scared every night, and you were right there and I couldn’t tell you.”

I held her. I was still so angry my teeth hurt. Both of those were true at the same time and nobody had ever told me that could happen.

When the bag was empty Varun came back and did the whole flush backward, wipe and count and push, and then he pulled the little needle out and put a bandage over the bump.

He zipped his bag. At the door he stopped.

“Oct 26 is her last one,” he said to me. “Six more nights. If you’re going to be awake for them, I’ll show you how to clamp it. It’s easier with two people.”

“I’m going to be awake for them,” I said.

He nodded and left. We heard the side door, which she’d been leaving unlocked for seventy-eight nights. I went downstairs and locked it.

When I came back up, she was sitting up against the headboard.

“In the morning,” I said, “you tell Roman. Not me. You. At the table. All of it, the nine-year-old version. You tell him nothing’s a secret in this house.”

She swallowed. “Okay.”

“And you tell your mother I know. On speaker.”

“Oh, God.”

“On speaker, Kerri.”

October 26

Wednesday morning she told him.

Roman listened with a spoon of cereal halfway up, the way he listens to anything with numbers in it, and when she got to twelve weeks he said, “That’s eighty-four days,” and she said yes, and he said, “So six left,” and went back to his cereal.

Then he put the spoon down.

“Was I supposed to tell Dad?”

“No, baby. I was.”

He looked at me. “I told you.”

“You did,” I said. “You were the only one.”

Her mother on speaker was worse, and I enjoyed it. Ingrid said, “Well, she didn’t want you to worry, Jimmy,” and I said, “Ingrid, I thought my wife had a boyfriend for nineteen hours,” and there was a silence on that phone so long Roman leaned in to check it hadn’t dropped.

Kerri said, “Mom. Say sorry to him.”

Ingrid said sorry. She said it like a woman passing a kidney stone. I said thank you like a man accepting a check.

I went to work that day. Kerri made me. She stood in the doorway with her arms crossed in a short-sleeved shirt for the first time since August, the bruise yellow on her arm in the daylight, and said, “If you call in sick to watch me breathe, I’ll put two gummies on your nightstand.” The guy at the yard who wanted gray grout for a white bathroom came back that afternoon. He’d changed his mind. White grout. I did his voice for her that night.

At 2:40 the door opened. I was sitting up with the lamp on.

“Morning,” Varun said.

“Morning.”

He showed me. Hands washed, gloves on, the cap wiped for fifteen seconds and not ten. Which clamp, which way. He made me push the saline myself on Thursday, slow, while Kerri held my wrist the way I’d held hers and said, “You’re going too fast,” and I said, “I’m going exactly as fast as him,” and Varun said, “You’re going a little fast.”

Friday Roman got up for the bathroom, stopped in the doorway, saw the three of us and the bag on the lamp chain and the light on, and said, “Can I watch?”

“Saturday,” Kerri said. “Saturday’s no school.”

Saturday he watched. He sat at the foot of the bed in his rocket shirt with both socks on and asked Varun eleven questions, and I counted, because I’m his father. The last one was “Does it hurt?” and Kerri said, “Not anymore,” and he nodded like that settled something he’d been keeping in a drawer.

Monday, October 26, was the last night.

Varun came at 2:40 like always. He’d brought, in the gray bag, under the ice pack, a cupcake from the gas station by the hospital with a candle stuck in it that was not lit, because, he said, “Oxygen. Habit.”

He let me do the whole thing. Wipe, count, flush. Hang the bag. I wasn’t fast. Kerri watched my hands the whole thirty minutes and didn’t say a word about speed.

When it was empty I flushed it out the way he’d shown me and he pulled the needle and put the bandage on, and that was it. Twelve weeks. Eighty-four days. The port would come out at the clinic in two weeks, a little thing, they said.

He packed up. At the door Kerri said, “Varun,” and he turned, and she said, “Thank you for not lying to him that night,” and he said, “I’d have told him the first night if you’d let me,” and she said, “I know,” and he left, and I went down and locked the side door behind him, and that was the last time I ever had to.

When I came back up, Kerri was asleep. Real asleep. I know that sound. Twelve years.

On my nightstand there was nothing.

I opened the drawer where I’d put the bottle when I took it off her side on Wednesday morning. Purple gummies, kids’ melatonin, three milligrams. I shook one out.

I walked around the bed and set it on a folded tissue on her nightstand, next to the empty lamp chain, where she’d see it first thing.

Then I turned off the light.

Tuesday I drove Roman to school. He did the door twice. Forehead on the window. Car wash.

“Dad.”

“Yeah, bud.”

“The man doesn’t come anymore.”

“No,” I said. “Now it’s just me.”

He thought about that for the length of the car wash, and then he leaned forward between the seats, and at 7:50 at the drop-off loop he kissed my cheek and said, “Tell Mom fourteen stairs,” and ran for the doors.

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